Melissa Farley sends someone to the Naked Anthropologist to rant

I am keeping up with the tendency to change language again, so that what people were calling prostitution and then trafficking now becomes, increasingly, slavery. The other day I critiqued a review of a film set in a 19th-century Paris brothel and wondered if there may be a desire for slavery to come back. Melissa Farley seems to have sent someone to rant at me just there, but perhaps the post was chosen at random. I wonder if anyone from here would like to reply to the commenter, who is called Stella Marr? Her comment includes

Ms. Agustin, you describe yourself as a feminist. I feel compelled to tell you how horrifying it is to me to read work like yours. Because, perhaps unintentionally, you are pumping for the pimps and massive organized criminal and economic interests that sexually exploit women.

You are making women like me invisible.

I can take care of myself regarding such accusations, but there is a lot more there to reply to: a real Farleyesque assortment, and as if I speak for all feminists and she for all sex workers.

She also quotes from an angry anti-prostitution book I was forced to reply to because the publisher did not fact-check and allowed many errors to be published: Note to anti-prostitutionists: Sex worker movements are nothing to sneer at. There is a long translation from the Swedish original, so perhaps that book is slated to be published in English, in which case the publisher had better do that fact-checking!

–Laura Agustín, the Naked Anthropologist

Advertisement

29 Responses

  1. Ahhh the feminazis are at it again! How dare we be feminists yet support sex work! No one pimped or trafficked me into the sex industry, I drove myself!

    Notice how the sex worker camp also does not use such strong language as “it is horrifying to read your work…”

    When I read Dr. Farley’s work, I enter with an open mind to understand all aspects of research as a researcher. When I emailed Dr. Farley personally, I did not insult her work in fact, I mentioned that we are not at all that far apart in what we are saying. We are just using a different vessel.

    I find it interesting that the feminazis supposedly feel sorry for us and that we are victims yet they attack in such passion. Don’t speak out of both sides of your mouth please.

    Ms. Billie Jackson, M.A., Ph.D student, Capella University
    SWOP Colorado, LLC

  2. Indeed, the two women who commented on that thread with horror stories of trafficking sounded very similar to each other. Either these stories aren’t real, or they’re both very coached in what to say (or they’re both the same person).

  3. It is the same person, who has a page on Farley’s site, some sort of internship perhaps?

  4. To paraphrase, Stella mentioned how Melissa Farley’s research found that people working as prostitutes experienced the same level of trauma as people subject to state-sanctioned torture. Well, that’s not too surprising considering that sex workers are sometimes subject to state-sanctioned torture as a consequence of oppressive anti-prostitution laws. Does Melissa Farley acknowledge that? For example, Marcia Powell was imprisoned for prostitution and left to die outside in a jail cage in the Arizona heat. It was over 100 degrees, yet the guards routinely denied her pleas for water and she died dehydrated with burns on her body.
    Also in Cambodia, under U.S. imposed anti-prostitution legislation, brothel sex workers are being subject to raids and raped, beaten, and robbed in prison. Even though this legislation was supposedly passed in the name of stopping human trafficking, I have no idea how gang raping sex workers stops human trafficking. In these examples, it was people working for the state (not the clients who Melissa Farley so routinely villifies) who tortured sex workers. Stop punishing sex workers to death, literally.

  5. To add to what Amanda said, I noticed that the people who commented on being trafficked have very similiar writing styles (in reference to the blog Feminist Whore linked to). I realize that some people just have similiar writing styles and I’m not jumping to any conclusions, but I’m also wondering like some people on here.

  6. Jill Brenneman has talked about what the prohibitionists call “reframing experiences”, i.e. lying and exaggerating to make their stories more horrible. If a number of women have been taught to “reframe” out of the same manual (so to speak), it’s not surprising they sound alike.

  7. This is the website of the person who commented on mine http://www.stellamarr.com/

    where it says ‘Stella will be blogging weekly for Prostitution Research and Education beginning in 2012.’

    so I am supposing that has begun.

  8. Yes, I assume if they actually are two different people, they’re well-coached on what to say by the feminists they’re working for (assuming they actually had the experiences they’re reporting, one of which didn’t sound completely credible).

    I’ve left a comment twice correcting the misinformation about Douglas Fox and it still hasn’t shown up. Hmm…

  9. where did you leave a comment?

  10. I commented on the Feministe post. The misinformation Stella spouts about Douglas is so wrong it’s laughable (Douglas would probably agree).

  11. We need to find out if such a person as Stella Marr even exists of if she is the creation of Farley’s sick and twisted mind. Certainly she has a right (if she is a real human being and not a figment of Farley’s ‘brain’) to express her opinions and her experiences, but she must not allow the rest of us to be silenced either.

  12. Farley doesn’t have the stones to go anyplace that she isn’t surrounded by the choir.

  13. In other words, Farley doesn’t have the stones your average, traumatized sex worker does.

  14. Farley is worse than a coward. She knowingly rips open wounded souls, ones that need to be focused on their own healing, turns them into research subjects and worse into political minions that bleed openly long before they understand what they are doing in order to make a political point. She exploits vulnerable women to use them as political cannon fodder without regard to their health and well being and disposes of them when they are no longer of value to her. And Farley isn’t the worst one for that. NIkki Craft makes Farley look like an amateur in exploitation.

  15. she did appear once with me, veronica monet and robyn few, and someone got her to shake my hand: http://www.lauraagustin.com/melissa-farley-and-laura-agustin-on-prostitution-with-skeletons

  16. mmm…stellamar sounds like that Jody what’s her name from los vegas

  17. “mmm…stellamar sounds like that Jody what’s her name from los vegas”

    As somebody who’s read this blog for a few years, I was thinking the same thing; I too remember the heavy commenting by Jody Williams (aka Sex Workers Anonymous, High Tech Madame) when BNG was blogging heavily about Farley’s much publicized Nevada “study”. Jody was also back channel communicating for Farley, as I seem to remember.

    I do think that Stella, Jody, and Melissa Farley are three different people, but this tendency of Farley’s to take a “recovering prostitute” under her wing and push them to into being Farley’s internet presence seems to be a long-standing pattern, not to mention a creepy one. We’ll see if Stella lasts any longer than Jody Williams, who after a few weeks was denouncing Farley for treating her like a peon.

  18. Stella is back on my blog, if anyone wants to talk with and even debate her: http://www.lauraagustin.com/sex-slavery-the-eros-ignorance#comment-6262

  19. Speaking of Jody Williams, she was a madam: http://www.lasvegascitylife.com/articles/2007/12/13/news/local_news/iq_18460027.txt . Yet, she was aligned with the stauch anti sex work side, which I find so interesting considering how they villify madams, like they’re the equivilant of female pimps. I don’t know if Jody is still aligned with the anti’s. I don’t think she’s totally loyal to one side or the other, but just seems to seek alliances whichever side she believes she can get the most funding on. She was on Bound Not Gagged a few years back praising how wonderful Melissa Farley is and bashing us, and then she comes on saying that she’s no longer aligned with Melissa Farley, complaining about how some of the anti’s are getting more funding than she is. At this point, she reached out to us.

    What are the anti’s saying? That it’s ok to be a madam as long as the madams support their side, but if they don’t, then they’re just female pimps who sexually exploit women? That contradictory behavior disgusts me so much and shows how ungenuine some of the anti’s are in their positions. How hypocritcal. I’m not a madam and never have been. Yet, this still disgusts me so much.

  20. The adult film industry is battling a similar type person..different name, same lies. FYI, I did email the film maker feedback about the whore bashing…

    http://www.thedevilandshelleylubben.com/

  21. I let Stella know that I am happy to take on a debate with her. Any time any place any audience.

  22. I’ve been chatting with Stella in the Feministe blog tonight and she’s being very kind and compassionate. I don’t necessarily see eye to eye with her on every comment, but I’m not going to hold that against her personally. I appreciate that she’s willing to kindly and constructively dialogue with us and consider our feelings. That makes me feel so good.

  23. Stella might be nice, but she’s also terribly misinformed. And likely in the middle of being used, which is rather sad for her.

  24. jillbrenneman, on December 15, 2011 at 6:29 pm said:

    I let Stella know that I am happy to take on a debate with her. Any time any place any audience.

    Battle of the (ex) whores…sounds like fun.

  25. actually i’m a current whore

  26. Even Better! Happy Ending violence day…

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 94 other followers