Comments about “missing student/porn star”

Some unbelievably ignorant people are commenting on the Kansas City Star’s website’s story about Emily Sanders – the college student who had a porn site and is now missing (a body matching her description has been found). Below are some of the choice gems that are reinforcing (in my mind, at least) what sort of place Kansas is.

If you have the time and energy to voice an opinion, the article can be found here:  http://www.kansascity.com/657/story/381680.html

What a seedy shell of a person she was … no surprise end for her. She looks like she was wasted in most of her candid shots. Was she from an equally trashy family?

 
  • Posted by: Get Real

after a simple google search I discovered HUNDREDS of really trashy pictures even #### acts that this girl was engaged in so if she was only 18 I have to wonder if the reason several pages were immediatly pulled was possibly because she was also doing this as a minor? in any event many of her sex scenes involving actual intercourse involved NO protection so she would have more than likely died of AIDS anyway.
Im sure that as her killer finds himself burning in hell he will have company there (HER)
no way she can shake rattle and roll her way into the kingdom I assure you!
HOT STUFF THEN HOT STUFF NOW AND FOREVER VERY VERY VERY HOT INDEED!!!

 
  • Posted by: GOD

Personally, I do not feel sorry for this girl. She obviously did not want to get a real job like a normal college student. Instead she made bad choices. It’s her fault that she’s dead.

 
  • Posted by: Cary Tomlin

To all who are defending what this girl has done, (very explicit pictures,videos,etc) should be ashamed! Yes, all should be respectful, however…my daughter, sister, niece, or whatever, will never do what she did to make money, simply because MY family knows this is the wrong road to take! Do you actually believe this could have happened to ANYBODY in Eldorado? I can assure you in my 18+ years in Eldorado, this has never happened! A coincidence perhaps, that she was a trashy pornstar, and she got murdered…no way, how often has that happened? (note the sarcasm) She made a very poor choice, now her, and her family have to pay for it! While this may sound as if I dont care, I do…very sad indeed, poor girl made a poor choice, very sad her family didnt raise her better, she may still be here if they did! I blame the parents, or parent, of this poor girl…I am truly sorry Emily, that your Mom and Dad could not raise you with morals!

 
  • Posted by: Voice of Reason

7 Responses

  1. […] Comments about “missing student/porn star” « Bound, Not Gagged “Some unbelievably ignorant people are commenting on the Kansas City Star’s website’s story about Emily Sanders – the college student who had a porn site and is now missing (a body matching her description has been found).” (tags: sad stigma crime) […]

  2. Wow, some of the comments are abysmal. Why are the choices of the the victim even in question? It is the choices of the perpetrator of violence against her that deserve condemnation.

    Instead of blaming the victim, take a long hard look at who should be the recipient of blame, or scorn, of condemnation. That is the perpetrator.
    In Saudi Arabia a rape victim is considered to have asked for it even though she is fully covered in the hijab just because she went to the mall without the Saudi interpretation of the appropriate male to accompany her. In the US we can say that is horrific and that it is obvious that the rape victim was not to blame and that the Saudi courts and the Saudi’s that blame her for being victimized are horrendously wrong.

    If she made porn movies. So what. That in no way is a statement that says she wants or deserves to be harmed, brutalized, potentially murdered.

    If you are blaming the victim you may want to take a hard look at yourself, your values, and your screwed up sense of reality.

    There is a parable about he who is perfect casting the first stone at a woman viewed as a ####. I doubt anyone on this board is qualified to cast a stone at her.

    The focus should be on supporting the loved ones, the police in tracking the perp and focusing on justice for the victim. Not blaming her.

    Jill Brenneman
    SWOP East Executive Director
    http://www.swopeast.org

  3. and folks wonder why I don’t like people…

  4. Ren: I know!!! Geez!

    People who make comments such as those quoted in this posting, are the reason I feel that it is critical to advocate for sex workers’ rights and the elimination of whore stigma.

  5. Sometimes I wonder — is it okay to ask? — why reproduce these dehumanizing comments? I’m just not sure. Comments like the above really cross a line, in my view… They might be the ranting of a serial killer. Who knows?

    And these haters thrive on attention.

    Anyway! Keep up the good work!

  6. I reproduced them in the hope that maybe some people from here would go to the source of the comments and speak up.

    I dont know – You are right- the haters thrive on attention, but i think this is a reality check to show what we are up against.

    I am sorry if anyone on here views this as inappropriate, but those comments hit a nerve.

  7. YEAH, THESE ARE SOME TRULY CHRISTIAN RESPONSES. About what I expect from Bible thumpers with no real understanding of what the Teachings are about. That poor poor child.

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